Friday, September 3, 2010

unit 6 post please comment

Hi class I have been doing a lot of thinking lately I just got married in May of this year. That sounds good but I have been thinking of an exit plan and being single again because I really wanted to marry someone else but thinks didn’t work out at the time with the other woman. My wife likes to boss me around and tell me what to do all of the time, I think it’s because she makes more money then me and feels like she can call the shots. I don’t like the way she treats me on one hand I feel like I need to talk to her about the problem that I have with her, on the other hand I just want to save up my money and get out of the marriage. I think it wasn’t fair on my part to get married to her and still have feeling for another woman but at the time I felt like I had no choice but to go along with the program.

2 comments:

  1. Hi there. I am so sorry you are going through issues right now. What made you decide to get married if it really wasn't what you wnted in your heart. All I can suggest is to be honest with her and sit down and talk to her. As I get older I realize how important it is to be happy with yourself. No woman should make their huband feel less than a man because she makes more. You have to work on your feelings for the other woman and get yourself together inside. This sounds so familiar because I was with my ex for 2 1/2 years and things didn't work out so I left. A year later he tells me he is marrying a woman 7 years older than him and it was just done on my birthday in July. Now this man continues to tell me he will love me forever and is always intant messaging me on yahoo on seeing how I am doing, etc. I sit here and wonder, should he not be thinking about his wife and not me. I understand now how you are feeling but you need to do what is right and follow what is in your heart. I hope you are having a great Labor Day. If you ever need to talk just shoot me a e-mail. I need to work on my rough draft. Good Luck to you.

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  2. Thanks for the advice abby its funny how things change my next blog is about the same topic but i feel different now.

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